The Dating Game: Is it ‘Easier’ For Women?

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It’s a question that’s asked a lot. Sometimes it’s not even asked, but rather asserted as being true. Online many men seem to feel that dating is rigged in women’s favour, that all the heavy lifting is done by men and women simply soak up the validation that comes from being attractive. In its most extreme form, we see this taken to its limits with the incel community: where men bemoan their lack of attractiveness…

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My passions include cinema, literature, fantasy, psychology, music/guitar, photography and ancient/medieval history.

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